When your child comes home and informs you that he or she wants to play a sport like soccer, it can be great. Certainly, it may mean some extra work on your part, driving the child to and from practice, going to games and all of that, but also it means that your son or daughter is about to embark on a very significant experience that will greatly affect the rest of their life. Team sports can create an excellent foundation for basic concepts that are needed throughout the rest of their life, like working together in a team, organization, strategy and bonding with your teammates.
Of course you will want your kid to have fun and be encouraged to keep going with the sport and there are a few things you can do to help with that. A great deal of their experience with soccer or any other sport will have to do with you, so you want to make sure that you are there to be supportive without going to the extreme of being overbearing. If it is possible, try to attend as many practices as you can, but take note of whether or not you are distracting your son or daughter from what they need to do. It may become obvious that you are unintentionally distracting them because they are concerned about what you’ll think of them; don’t take it personally, just let them have some practices where they can concentrate on what they’re doing.
Also, be sure to keep a level head about the game as well as their performance in it. Always try to be as encouraging and supportive as you can without letting your child see you come unglued by a bad call or an improperly performed maneuver.
The most important thing is to try to keep things regarding the sport fun. A parent, coach or other involved adult should not ever be allowed to yell at or demean the children for mistakes that they make during the course of the game, nor should they ever insult or otherwise embarrass them. Keep their minds as engaged as possible and they will gain more muscle control and continue to be interested in what they are doing.
Above all, make sure that all the criticism given is done in a positive and constructive way with an attitude of teaching, whenever you or anyone else is helping your child with their techniques. Demonstrate how to kick, trap or head the ball, and tell them why it is important to do so; with positive reinforcement they will learn very quickly.
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